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Tag: bedroom decor

sunday slumber- it’s not a party… it’s business

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i’m in the middle of a move, so for those of you who have a fresh bed to utilize on this blessed sunday- relish in the comfort, throw on a shonda rhimes show, and snub the outdoors. people often gave my former bed the compliment of relating it to a ‘parent bed,’ always clean, crisp, and responsibly cozy (not too soft.) ya ain’t seen nothing yet… my next sleep haven is going to be a low riding, firm but inviting, neutrally linened treasure of a nest. this very image will get me through my repulsive sunday pack- where i decide what to do with pictures of my tween self in one size too small abercrombie tee’s, and contimplate whether 3/4 burnt fancy candles are worth keeping.

gender neutral bedrooms erring on the side of masculine



as a married woman (?!?! still wrapping my head around my stage in life) one thing i vow to never do is emasculate my partner in this journey by pinkafying, frufruifying, pastelifying the bedroom. if you are paired up in this journey isn’t it important to leave the bedroom fair game? it is a place i would prefer my man to be in touch with his masculinity. coupled or not the bedroom is not one to neglect, the rule of keeping the bedroom door shut when company comes knocking is for hoarders- people are curious where you sleep. i find great inspiration in hotel bedrooms (maybe a post to come?) who doesn’t like feeling the luxury of a staycation every night, annndd they’re generally unbiased.

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